There’s a huge difference between paying for a roleplay service, and building a real relationship with a Woman you respect.
For those who are looking for a long-term dynamic with a Pro-Domme, here are some pointers:
👁 DO YOUR RESEARCH
Before you approach, explore her website, social media and fans sites. Is this someone that you vibe with? Do you share common interests?
👁 ANSWER YOUR OWN QUESTIONS
Or at least the ones that you can. Before messaging her to ask her something she might already answer on one of her platforms, intentionally search for the answers to the questions you may have. You may find more answers than you knew you wanted/needed.
👆 this piggybacks on the research pointer, but takes it a bit deeper and is deserving of some added emphasis.
👁 BE PRESENT
When you demonstrate that you are capable of showing up consistently over time, she will trust you more than subs that come in hot and burn-up/disappear quickly.
👁 RECIPROCATE
Understand that your presence in her life consumes some of her time and mental/energetic bandwidth. If you want your presence in her life to be received as a gift, ensure that it is one. This doesn’t always mean $$, but it is a surefire way to make sure what you add to her life is a blessing rather than a nuisance.
👁 SEND THOUGHTFUL GIFTS AND TRIBUTES
Not only does this keep you on her radar, but it also shows that you are paying attention and care to serve. A thoughtful tribute will help you to stand out
👁 BE READY
When you want to take that step toward a more serious D/s relationship, make sure you are ready. Funny as it may sound, it can sometimes be hard to receive the things we want most. So make sure you are mentally, emotionally, and financially prepared for even the best case scenario.
👁 BE YOURSELF
You can’t have an authentic power-exchange relationship if you yourself are not authentic. It can be scary, and of course, you’re going to want her to like you. But you want her to like YOU, not your mask. This means you need to be willing to bare your all to your Domme. Yes, th llight side, the dark side, and everything in between. ALL OF YOU.
With love,
Chalice
